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Sunday, November 13, 2011

Turkish Potluck!

Great day today! My Turkish American friends had a year end potluck at their Society office - a humble office in an industrial area - BUT - they had beautiful gold and white tablecloths on the conference tables. Since it was a potluck and there is not a real kitchen we didn't have hot food. Everyone outdid themselves by making made-from-scratch Turkish dishes. One person who always attends and is also a dietitian brought 4 items! She drives from Northfield and comes with her daughter.
I know all these people real well now and enjoy them - at 10 people it was a smaller group than some classes - maybe because it not a class. I brought our Turkish dinner menu and they had lots of questions about our trip. They were so happy to hear how much we enjoyed it - especially the people and the food!! Said "This is what we like to hear". Notice both the American and Turkish flags behind us.

Hulya on left - we have really connected - she is an engineer by education but a sales manager for a Turkish company by profession and can work from home. She has a 4 and 6 year old and her husband is a structural engineer. Together we can make jokes about engineer spouses. The center person is new to MN and is a bit worried about the upcoming winter but has lived in Buffalo NY so we told her it would be a piece of cake. Esra is on the right and is now pregnant with her first child and very excited. We will have to have a baby shower...due April 1. Her husband will complete his doctorate in engineering or something and she hopes they can stay in Minnesota - notice the Minnesota flag behind them.

We talked about many things. I told her about a driver we had in Kusadasi who was married with an 8 year old, salary about $300US per month, $75 rent, works often 12+ hour days 7 days a week. She said the only people who had regular 40 hour week jobs were the government employees!!!! Her company factory in Turkey pays about $400/month on average and this is a usual wage.

We talked about holidays - they have just had a religious holiday. They only have 2 holidays a year. Dec. 31 is a fun day for them with decorated trees and gift exchanges - "because we wanted to have fun like many other countries".

She showed me their office and classroom space. The children have wall posters in Turkish - for instance posters of animals, food and transportation things all with Turkish names. One very inviting room with couches, pillows and beautiful lamps all around the room is where the women meet once a week. I stepped in and Hulya told me I could not go in with shoes on - I should have known better and she used a very gentle voice to remind me. It is used as a prayer room.

The next classes will start in January on the 2nd Sunday of each month.

So yesterday was Hockey Grandma day to help Amy. Alex is a great little skater and as you can see Lucy is quite the "Hockey Sistah" - she chooses her own clothes and the addition of the leopard boots really completes the very colorful outfit. She was very proud of her "skinny jeans" but I must admit I had not really noticed them - can't imagine why.


Another busy week coming up but we are going to try to squeeze in the movie "J Edgar" on Wednesday.

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